Cerita Ceriti Kehidupan

Selamat hari raya to all muslims…

Happy Moments

1) Semua adik beradik manage to berkumpul rumah mak on 4th raya. Sister R balik on 3rd raya after spending raya with her inlaws in Ulu Tembeling, sister A balik 1st day raya selepas beraya kat Temerloh her in laws hometown as she is staying in Triang. Me, sister M and brother memang beraya rumah mak. So dah 2 tahun raya semua dapat jumpa.

2) 1st day Raya ramainya datang berziarah termasuk kunjungan dari my long silence sister J from Trengganu, surprise visit. Walaupun penat, berbaloi!

3) Alhamdulillah rezeki raya, dapat duit org bayar hutang (RM1000)!

4) Tahun ni tiada rajuk dari bonda!! Semua ok!!

Sad Moments

1) Family feud!!! dah berkumpul ramai macam2 ragam. 3rd day raya crisis sister A and sister M, sampai ada adengan hempas kerusi! 4th and 5th raya sister A pulak buat hal, semua orang tak ditegur..even Mak dia tak tegur.Tak tahu mana silap.Too sensitive.Sister M balik KL on 5th day raya, ingat dah lega habis satu kes, rupanya sambung kes lain with sister A pulak. All these crisis, Mak yang kesian. Sedih dia. Me being the eldest daughter, penat nak tenteramkan keadaan.Last-last buat do know je lah.

2) On 3rd raya, received news that sepupu mak kena stroke and died on the way to hospital. We called her Mak Besaq!! Al fatihah untuk keluaga mak besaq di Langgar, Kedah.

3) When I was calling everybody to convey the sad message, auntie Y mentioned that rumah dia kena masuk pencuri, her handbag, her husband’s wallet all gone! We were at her house on 2nd day raya till evening..May be pencuri tu tahu org dalam rumah tu penat buat open house kot, berani masuk when the tenants ada.

4) Hubby supposed to come back on Friday, 6th day of raya. Tup-tup tak jadi, tiket burnt lah. Tension? Malas nak tension, suka hatilah.I proceed to celebrate raya with the rest of the family. Justice? Let Allah be the judge…

For me, raya was ok all in all, however terkilan dengan diri sendiri kerana meninggalkan byk ibadat sunat kerana beraya! Solat sunat rawatib tak buat, alasan panas!!! Looking back, rasanya that’s why perjalanan raya tak smooth, family crisis, husband tak jadi balik, Allah tarikh kemudahan yang dianugerahkan dalam Ramadhan….

However Alhamdulillah, balik KL ni tengok hubby masih meneruskan solat sunat rawatibnya dan semuga berkekalan…

Ya Allah Ya Rahman Ya Rahim, Permudahkan urusan ibadatku, rumahtanggaku dan rawatanku..Amin…

My  nephew Firdaus, 11 years old, dari kecik lagi ada problen dengan matanya. Apparently his inner eyelid berbiji-biji and hence mata putih dia sentiasa merah kerana bergesel dengan eyelid dia tu..Dan dia juga ada resdong. Pakar mata kata dia allergic, tapi tak tahu allergic apa. Doktor kata dia ni akan membesar ngan doktorlah..That was 3 years back.

After that macam-macam cuba alternative treatments, tapi tak berjaya lagilah. At last pergi doktor balik. And paling teruk this week dia kena sampai mata merah menyala, so his parents took him to Sungai Buloh hospital. Before this kat Selangor Medical Center. Matanya dah berdarah..Dah dua hari berulang-alik to hospital for treatment. Masuk ni dah 4 pakar jumpa, termasuk ke Hospital Mata Tun Husein Onn.

I said to my sister R, ibu dialah kena solat hajat doa banyak2..Kesian dia, minat main bola, sukan..tapi terpaksa stop semua tu cause he cannot be exposed to habuk.

Well, Firdaus, Cik ngah doakan agar Allah sembuhkan sakit Firdaus. Doa banyak-banyak dan mintak sungguh-sungguh ngan Allah…

Bukankah lelaki yang bergelar abang sepatutnya melindungi dan menjaga kebajikan adik perempuannya?

Bukankan seorang lelaki yang bergelar suami sepatutnya melindungi dan menjaga  kebajikan isterinya?

Hati seorang adik perempuan terluka dengan sikap abang yang tidak mengambil kira. Tidak pernah mahu bertanya situasi yang dia tinggalkan untuk adiknya selesaikan…

Hati seorang isteri sungguh terguris dikala suami tak sudah-sudah berjanji tanpa mengotakan janji. Sudah berkali-kali perkara yang sama berulang. Hanya bertindak bila sudah terlewat, dan si isteri juga yang diminta untuk menyelesaikan. Tidak boleh dibawa berbincang, melenting bila dipersoalkan….. Wajarkah??

Ya Rabb…

Lewat malam yang selalu ku rentangkan
selaksa doa yang tak putus asa ku dendangkan
dengan perantara 99 nama-Mu yang lima kali bahkan lebih
terucap dari bibirku….
Rabb….
Berilah aku kesabaran yang lebih dari sekarang….
berilah aku qonaah, ridho, syukur akan nikmat
yang Kau pastikan untukku
Rabb…..
mungkin aku belum pantas Kau rengkuh
tapi Rabb…….
tak ada salahnya kan jika aku selalu mengharap
Rahman-Rahim-Mu………….

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My sister M was discharged on Wednesday 13th May after 7 days of hospitalization. Asyik nak tumpah airmata dia dok teringat ker baby Aqeela who was ‘posted’  to Seremban since tak der orang nak jaga. So in the evening she went to Seremban to see Aqeela and sort of to spend the rest of her medical leave at her sister in law’s house.

Guess what? Yesterday evening, her husband pulak warded at hospital pakar Seremban, dengue again with platlet at 57. Musibah kalau nak datang sekejap ajer, I told my sister.But she should be thankful that her husband was down with dengue after she had recovered. Just imagine if her husband were to be taken down by dengue while she was still in hospital!!

Another thing, I told her that bukan senang nak dapat pahala ni..sakit or any musibah is actually anugerah dari Allah, pelaburan kita kat dunia untuk saham akhirat. It will make you stronger and nearer to HIM.Jika redho, pahala ganjaranya…InsyaAllah. So be strong sister! and sentiasa bersyukur..

Point to note, always look at positive side of whatever blessed upon us by the Creator. Dia yang lebih tahu..

1 week before comming to Langkawi, my sister R made arrangement to come to Langkawi to join me. On Thursday, my other sister M warded due to fever and had to undergo further check up to determine the cause.

Sister M’s hubby left their 2 daughters at sister R’s house that nite. When sister R’s husband and Pak Cik visited sister M that nite she was ok , and hence on Friday (8May) morning my sister R proceeded with her plan to join me in Langkawi. Her flight was at 11.00am. At about 10.30am, my sister M called to inform that she had dengue.I received a call from Pak Cik informing that sister M was warded with dengue.

I then called sister M, she was crying saying that Mak did not come straight to KL from Triang.Mak was in Triang after visiting her cousin whose wife passed a way on Tuesday the 6th May. I then called Mak, she was on her way back to KB .She said she had to go back first then came back to KL that nite. I quickly called Hubby to buy flight ticket to KL that nite.

Hubby had managed to secure the Firefly ticket for Mak at 9.55pm. So I then informed sister M that Mak was comming and supposed to reach Subang at 11.oopm. I called Pak Cik to pick up Mak at Subang later on. Al was going well and seem settled.

At about 8pm, my other sister A, called and asked me to call my brother. She said that Mak was saying that she was not well and did not feel like going to KL. What ??? I was shocked…When I managed to talk to Mak, I had asked her to come since the ticket has been bought. I asked my brother to ask for assistance from the Firefly crew. So it looked like I kind of force Mak to come to KL.

When Hubby called, I told him what happened. He did not agree that I forced Mak to come.He said that she must have reason for not comming.He called Mak who was on her way to the airport. Hubby said it was ok, don’t come if Mak was not feeling well.

So, my brother who was driving Mak to the airport, turn back and send Mak to clinic instead. Unfortunately the clinic that she wanted to go was closed. She refused to go to another clinic. My brother said that he was taking Mak to his house. I thought ok then,but I was worried sick that sister M would feel neglected by Mak.

So Mak did not come, and ticket burnt macam tu jer…I called Pak Cik and told him what happened.He said he will convey the message to sister M properly so that she will not feel that Mak did not care for her. Me? I was sooooo serabut!!! I did not call sister M that nite..

Saturday morning, I called my brother to ask how was Mak doing..Guess what? She had also refused to go to my brother’s house. Come to think of it, kenapa semua ini terjadi? Kenapa susah sangat..Macam-macam berlaku. My sister R, rasa bersalah sebab tinggalkan sister M. Me? ada juga rasa bersalah sebab tak terus balik Jumaat tu walaupun kerja dah habis.

Conclusionnya, perasan serba salah dan macam-macam ada. Nak menangis pun ada, sebab kita sentiasa cuba jaga hati orang tapi orang kadang-kadang tak perasan pun yang kita terasa.I knew that Pak Cik and others mesti marah sebab tak balik segera, my opinion? beza satu hari jer..instead of balik Sabtu, balik Ahad..besok..Hari Jumaat memang tak logic nak terus balik since sister R baru sampai. Hubby pun suruh balik Ahad since kalau nak tukar flight kena bayar RM130.

Apa-apa pun kena terimalah semua orang akan mengata kami, seolah-olah kami tak prihatin..I hope that everything will be fine and pray to Allah that my sister M will have speedy recovery… Ameen.

Segala yang berlaku ada sebab dan musababnya… only Allah knows best..Orang tua bila terasa, panjang ceritanya..hemmm…